I've been married to my wife for 11 years and I'm grateful that we're still deeply in love. We seldom have a fight but when it happens, it is almost definitely about these three things or a combination of two or three of the below:
1. Money
Sometimes, what is important to me is not my partner sees and vice-versa. My wife would probably think that buying a $500 handbag is important to her. It looks good on her and definitely she likes it a lot. But for me, it is simply a waste of money. It is better to get my car tuned to the optimum performance with that money rather than spending it on a handbag. Again, depending on who you are (a man or a woman), you might not agree with me. If you don't this proves that it is a common problem between couples.
2. Family Matters
It seems trivial but sometimes a topic of who to pick up kids from school can become big issues. Or, who should water the lawn. I, myself can't comprehend or rationalize the arguments but they do happen from time to time. Although, these arguments are not as big as issues related to money, they are nagging problems. These problems are easily solved but easily happen too.
3. Sex
When you get married and have children, you will face 'attention' problem. There were times when my wife had to pay a lot more attention to my children and neglected my needs. The attention given to my children exhausted my wife and definitely affected our relationship. If you have babies, it is more prevalent.
In a relationship between couples, I'm sure you will not avoid getting into arguments. As long as you don't keep it long and are always in discussion, you can still manage good life with your couples.
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